While everyone's idea of the best sex toy differs, there's no denying that sexual wellness products have become mainstays in our self-care routines of late. From clitoral vibrators to wand vibrators and dildos, searches for the best sex toys for women are burgeoning.
Need proof? Last year, in 2022, LookFantastic saw a 3,910% increase in sex toy sales in comparison to pre-pandemic numbers, while leading sexual wellness retailer The Natural Love Company revealed that searches for ‘adult sex toys’ peaked at their highest point for five years last year. (Clitoral suction toys were, deservingly, the top performers). The retailer also told us that sex toy sales have showed no sign of slowing down in 2023. In fact, January saw them experience a 400% (!) rise in year-on-year growth. It's official: we can happily kiss goodbye to the days when women would shy away from discussing orgasms and masturbation and welcome a new era of sexual positivity.
An eclectic mix of sex toys is the ideal (variety is the spice of life and all that) – but if your sex toy collection is currently population: one, fret not. Our guide to tried and tested sex toys, each with excellent battery life, varying vibration modes and body-safe silicone covers, will point you in the direction of your crème de la crème. Don't say we don't treat you.
Sex toy benefits | What does a sex toy do? | What are the different types of sex toys for women? | How we tested the sex toys in this edit | Full reviews.
Meet the experts:
- Cameron Long-tel, Sex-Educator and Sexpert from LELO
- Cecile Gasnault, brand director of Smile Makers and founder of Vulva Talks
In a hurry? The best sex toys for women at a glance:
- Best sex toy for women overall: LELO Sona 2 Sonic Massager, £84.15, LELO
- Best sex toy for penis-havers overall: BASICS Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring, £14.99, Lovehoney
3. Best for people with clits: So Divine Self Pleasure Clitoral Suction Stimulator, £45, Amazon
4. Best new launch: Womanizer Duo 2 Silicone G-Spot & Clitoral Stimulator, £189.99, Lovehoney
5. Best hands-free: Dame Eva II Hands-Free Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator, £87.75, Cult Beauty
6. Best anal sex toy: Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator, £69.99, Lovehoney
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What are some of the benefits of using sex toys?
On your own, sex toys are a fail-safe way to drastically improve masturbation - which we’ve actually been prescribed a daily dose of by New York’s Department of Health thanks to the orgasms' ability to boost mental health, stimulate the production of oxygen, improve cognitive function, enhance your mood and act as a natural painkiller.
With a partner, the best sex toys can heighten and intensify intimacy, elevate foreplay and stimulate every erogenous zone (whatever your kink). Using sex toys is empowering, confidence-boosting and fun.
What does a sex toy do?
A sex toy is designed to stimulate the body's erogenous zones, from the nipples to the clitoris, prostate, penis and beyond. Sex toys can help users to reach climax and orgasm both on their own or during partnered play. You can buy sex toys designed for vaginas, penises, prostates and, in some cases, all three.
Here at GLAMOUR, we're of the belief that in 2023 and beyond, sexual wellness should be empowering and the time for sex toy shaming is well behind us.
How did we test, review and choose the best sex toys?
Aren't you dying to know? While we may not have taken an entire afternoon out to try all of these sex toys in one fell swoop, we have gained a bit of sexual wellness know-how from the experts we've spoken to – and, over a period of three years – tried and tested all of the products that come in recommended.
GLAMOUR writers, editors and contributors of all ages have tested these sex toys during sex and masturbation – on holiday, in the next room to their housemate and on Valentine's Day – to ensure they live up to claims. We've scored on criteria including noise level, dimensions, settings, speeds and power. Transparency is important to us, so we've been brutally honest, unveiling the negative features as well as the game-changing ones, which we hope will prove we have your best interests at heart.
Ahead, GLAMOUR's edit of the best sex toys from our favourite sex toy retailers.
1. Best sex toy for women overall
Pros: “Take it from me: the LELO Sona is really, *really* good – and my go-to clitoral vibrator for masturbation. I literally recommend it to all of my friends. It uses new-generation sonic waves (and Cruise Control technology) to serve up fast; intense clitoral stimulation. It arrives packaged in a silky carry case (v. luxe) and is made from super-soft silicone that feels soft against your skin. It’s waterproof, the battery life is long, and when you’re mid-play, it’s really easy to switch between the various modes and patterns. That’s where the aforementioned Cruise Control technology comes in. When the Sona 2 is pressed hard against the body and the monitor begins to drop power, an extra 20% is unleashed (a 20% that had - until this point - been saved and stored for when you need it) so that there’s no reduction in intensity. Game-changing, right? Honestly: this thing is so good.”
Cons: "Some of my friends who are a little sensitive tried it and reported it a little too intense.”
Type: Clitoral stimulator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: 100% rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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2. Best self-heating sex toy for women
Pros: “The best thing about this sex toy is that it features a sensual warming function to help create a realistic sensation that mimics penetrative sex. Combined with intense vibrations, this sex toy provides an intense clitoral and G-spot stimulation experience. I also loved that it's compatible with the free Satisfyer App - available on iOS and Android - for a really high-tech experience that makes the slightly hefty price point worth it. And it has two powerful motors transmit intense vibration rhythms throughout the entire toy.”
Cons: “No complaints here, to be honest. It feels great and the warming function is a bonus.”
Type: Rabbit.
Waterproof? Splashproof.
Battery: Rechargeable.
Made from: Plastic.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
3. Best rechargeable sex toy
Pros: “The So Divine Self Pleasure rabbit vibrator has been expertly crafted with the female form in mind: it's desirably curvaceous; shaped to reach both your G-spot and clitoris easily. What’s more, it feels heavy, which I liked – taking the pressure, quite literally, off you, and making it worth the £50 price tag. Plus, with three speeds/intensity levels, it stays charged for an impressive amount of time.”
Cons: “None that I can think of: this device is pretty much a one-stop-shop to a dual orgasm (and I, as well as an unfaltering five-star customer review record, agree).”
Type: Rabbit vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: USB rechargeable, cable included.
Made from: 100% body safe premium soft silicone, free from latex & phthalates.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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4. Best hands-free sex toy
Pros: “Guaranteed to elevate your sex life, this wearable sex toy is hands-free and wearable. I loved using it during sex with my partner and found it made us feel closer together - particularly since I don't usually orgasm from penetration alone. It vibrated against my clitoris for a truly life-changing experience, staying in place with fiddle-free wings that nestle under the labia. There's a trio of vibration settings so you can set the intensity before you begin, and between sessions, you can recharge the toy through a USB port. What's more, this sex toy is waterproof which makes it perfect for play in the shower or bath.”
Con: “It did take me a couple of minutes to get it in the right position.”
Type: Hands-free couple's vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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5. Best new sex toy launch
Pros: “If you like both internal and external simulation, this new addition from the world of Womanizer will likely send your orgasms skyrocketing (something it certainly did to mine). I'm talking direct clitoral sensations paired with a deep undercurrent of penetrative vibrations and, what's more, Womanizer even include two sizes of stimulator head. Yep, that's right, so whether you like your pleasure tight and direct or more spread out and well-rounded - so to speak… - the brand have put everybody first. Myself included.”
Cons: “The internal wand is perhaps to big to enjoy during penetrative sex with a penis, but I'm taking that as a sign for the universe that it's self-love season.”
Type: Clitoral suction toy-come-rabbit vibrator-come dildo
Waterproof? Yes
Battery: USB rechargeable with 120 minutes of power
Made from: ABS, body-safe silicone, made without phthalates, BPA or latex
Discrete packaging? Yes
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6. Best clit suction sex toy
Pro: “This sex toy gently sucks and blows air around your clitoris for an earth-shattering orgasm. It's a great, cheaper alternative to the LELO if you don't want to spend quite as much as the Sona 2 Cruise costs. I liked that there are 11 different suction patterns to play with, allowing you to tailor the experience to your specific needs and desires. So for pin-pointed clitoral stimulation under £50? You should definitely make a beeline for one of LookFantastic's most popular sex toys for women: So Divine's self pleasure suction stimulator.”
Con: “A strange thing to dislike, but some of the settings felt a little random – and not very pleasurable. I preferred to stick to the more standard, continuous modes.”
Type: Clit vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: USB.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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7. Best dildo sex toy
Pros: “Dildos are meant for insertion and normally don’t vibrate - unless you get the right attachment for it. This one, however, does – with a curved shaft and clit vibrator for dual pleasure. For that reason alone, it's worth adding to your collection. I liked that the head is realistic and shaped perfectly for g-spot massages – and that it boasts multiple speed vibrations for varying intensity and sensations.”
Cons: “The texture of the shaft is a bit like marmite - you'll either love it or hate it.”
Type: Dildo.
Waterproof? Splashproof.
Battery: Physical batteries.
Made from: Soft plastic.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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8. Best sex toy for new mums
Pros: “According to a report from Smile Makers and Mumsnet entitled ‘Finding pleasure after childbirth’, 75% of mothers worry about reconnecting with their sexuality after giving birth – and while 84% are proud of their body, more than 60% struggle with body image and feel like “a vessel for their child’s needs”. So, the two brands teamed up to create the world's first vibrator targeted at new mothers – and we obviously had to get our hands on it. The Whisperer – named to reflect its discreet volume levels as well as the notion of gentle, personal pleasure – has been designed to cater for scar tissue and heightened sensitivity. It's made from flexible silicone for a soft sensation, and is designed to be used for clitoral stimulation, based on the feedback that mothers can feel anxious about penetration. The curved tip nicely hugs the clitoris and stimulates the vulva with discreet vibrations.”
Cons: “Nothing to note – for its purpose, I was very impressed.”
Type: Bullet.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
9. Best sex toy for women with Pleasure Air technology
Pros: “We-Vibe's patented Pleasure Air technology surrounds the clitoris with pulsating waves and gentle suction without touching it and, with its slim design, it’s easily integrated into partnered sex, be it penetrative or external foreplay. For me, the two-hour battery life (on a single charge) was really impressive. No more unwanted interruptions or, worse, awkward fumbles to come up with an alternative on the spot.”
Cons: “I have no complaints, it really does stimulate the feel of oral sex and being able to place it between partners during sex is a real added bonus (that not all suction toys afford buyers).”
Type: Clitoral suction toy.
Waterproof? Yes, submersible.
Battery: USB rechargeable.
Made from: Body-safe silicone, made without phthalates, BPA or latex.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
10. Best sex toy starter kit for women
Pro: “Splashproof, up to six inches in insertable length and enough of a variety of products for both solo and couples play, this sex toy selection is a reputable choice for beginners and buyers just dipping their toes in the sexual wellness waters for the first time. You/your partner can work through the toys, starting small and increasing as you feel comfortable, not to mention discovering new pleasures and preferences that you didn’t even know existed. I might start with either the wand or bullet, but take things at your own pace regardless.”
Con: “Lots of batteries required for this one. Then again, you needn’t buy them all at once.”
Type: Bullet vibe, wand vibe, clit suction toy, anal dildo, dildo and vibrating love egg.
Waterproof? No, splashproof.
Battery: You will need 4 x LR44 batteries, 2 x AAA + 1 x AA.
Made from: N/A - not disclosed.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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11. Best G-spot sex toy
Pros: “Please don't be put off by the length of this g-spot vibrator. With its curved tip, it has been perfectly designed with the female form in mind to reach your G-spot in one fell swoop. It's smooth and slim and rechargeable via USB, and it boasts three varying speeds and seven passion patterns for a wonderful and empowering masturbation experience.”
Con: “It's not made in the UK, so in terms of carbon emissions and the number of miles from the manufacturer to your door, it doesn't deliver.”
Type: G-spot vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Physical battery.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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12. Best sex toy for women for dual stimulation
Pros: “If you’re the kind of person that thinks two orgasms are better than one, you’re in for a real treat. Soraya™ 2 is the world’s most luxurious rabbit vibrator that offers optimised dual-stimulation for both clitoral and G-spot orgasm, on a whole new level. Packaged in a silky carry bag, large in size, quiet when in use and with a 10-year warranty (and four hours' worth of play when fully charged), I'd declare it worth every penny of its £199.99 price tag.”
Con: “The length of the clitoral stimulator isn't a failsafe for sexual pleasure with all users, depending on the shape of your body. I found it a little difficult to find the correct position for me.”
Anonymous GLAMOUR tested review: Personally, the little rabbit ears on some of the so called ‘best rabbit vibrators’ are perhaps a tad too innocent looking for my moment of self care. That's one of the main reasons why the Soraya 2 jumped out to me, not to mention the all-round five star ratings. I was admittedly apprehensive of the gold plating, thinking at first that it would be stainless steel and icy to the touch but, on the contrary, the luxe-look front is made from a less chilling ABS plastic and felt comfortable alongside the smooth silicone when in use. For me, the Soraya brings a little bit of opulent wellness to my personal moments, and the price tag is well worth it.
Type: Rabbit vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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13. Best sex toy to use during sex
Pros: “Coming in under £15, this vibrating cock ring is a great introduction into sex toys for beginners. If you're after something which you can use during sex, I'd definitely recommend. My partner found the ring to be super stretchy, snug and comfortable (it's marketed to be suited to fit penises of up to 4 inches in diameter) and it was easy to turn on during foreplay with the touch of a button. It also boasts quivering rabbit ears for intense clitoral stimulation for her - which lots of other cock rings on the market don't have.”
Con: “The only thing I disliked about this cock ring was that the ring sometimes slipped up and down while in use. Perhaps this wouldn't be the same for all wearers.”
Type: Cock ring.
Waterproof? Splashproof.
Battery: AA battery.
Made from: Plastic.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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14. Best massage wand sex toy
Pros: “Lovehoney's bestselling massage wand is this mains powered wand vibrator, so I was rather excited – as a wand vibrator newbie - to give it a try. It's perfect for solo use, shared intimate play and intimate massage. And while it might not be portable, boy is it powerful. I rated that the cable is 1.8 meters long, so you don't need to worry about it not stretching to your bed.”
Con: “It can be a little noisy, so make sure your housemates aren't in. I, sadly, made that mistake.”
Type: Wand.
Waterproof? No.
Battery: Mains.
Made from: Hard plastic.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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15. Best nipple stimulators for women
Pros: “Already dipped your toes in with a nipple stroker? Does having the tips of your breasts caressed sends a spark to your groin? Go with these. How? Moisten first (a drop of water-based lube is ideal), squeeze out the air and release over your areola. The more air you squeeze out, the stronger the suction – leaving your nipples bigger and much more sensitive. They were a great addition to foreplay.”
Con: “Be warned: they pop off during rough play.”
Type: Nipple stimulators.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: N/A.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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16. Best bullet vibrator sex toy
Pros: “This g-spot vibrator uses Smile Makers' innovative technology which allows for more powerful vibrations, not to mention it has a slightly increased weight compared to other models, which encourages an even more intense orgasm.”
Cons: “It will only penetrate a couple of inches, but did you know that 81.6% of women don’t orgasm from penetrative intercourse alone? So, if you prefer sex positions where your partner is coming into contact with the clitoris and surrounding areas, The Tennis Pro will be a top pick for joint to solo play to show those external zones some love.”
Type: Bullet vibrator with a wand vibrator-style head.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Single AA battery for up to four hours of play.
Made from: Phthalate free cryogenically polished silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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17. Best sex toy for women on Lovehoney
Pros: “The silken, body-safe silicone engulfs the clitoris before pulsing its incredible suction waves (contact-free) as six levels of compelling intensity offer a range of delicious sensation. It’s designed to mimic the feel of oral sex with an IRL partner and, with the likes of Lily Allen backing Womanizer’s wellness toys, I’m confident the Pro40 will get you where you’re hoping to go. It sure did me. Indeed, the singer even launched her own collab with the brand, aptly named Liberty, in which her products featured the same Pro40-style suction cup. Hopefully you’re now starting to glean some understanding of quite how legend these suction cups are…”
Cons: “It only comes with one head attachment, which you may want to replace with frequent use. Though, with proper sex toy cleaning, it shouldn’t give up on you anytime soon.”
Type: Clitoral suction toy.
Waterproof? Yes, submersible.
Battery: USB rechargeable.
Made from: Suction cup is silicone, free from latex and phthalates.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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18. Best sex toy for anal play
Pros: “It’s great for playing with temperatures. Pop it in the fridge for 10 minutes or under a warm tap to shake up your sexual sensations. Plus, one of the main benefits of integrating glass within your partnered or solo session is that it’s suitable for use with any lubricant: water, silicone, oil-based - you name it. Finally, when used vaginally, its texture - compared to, say, a straight up and down dildo - can help women who struggle to climax internally to reach a orgasm therein. While I can’t speak on behalf of all women, almost 500 Lovehoney reviews might breach the gap, somewhat. I might also add that glass dildos specifically are popular for use as prostate massagers during anal sex, namely because of the aforementioned temperature play and the fact that they're so easy to clean. ”
Cons: “It's broader than most prostate toys and buyers may need to prepare, for example with smaller anal beads, in the weeks and months leading up to its use. I’d recommend increasing beads and dildos in size - as you are comfortable to do so - up until you reach one similar to that of this Lovehoney 7 incher.”
Anonymous GLAMOUR tested review: I was scared to use a sex toy this big, especially around the prostate area and had initially been swayed towards LELO's more petite Hugo prostate massager. That was, until I read some advice from sex therapists about how you can explore temperature play with glass sex toys and, well, I was converted. If you're looking to introduce a new degree (quite 🔥❄️ literally) of interest to your personal or coupled sex life, I'd definitely recommend glass. And, of course, you don't need to use the entirety of this dildo's daunting 7 inches, play at your/your partner's own pace.
Type: Glass dildo.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: N/A.
Made from: Glass.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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19. Best remote controlled sex toy for women
Pros: “Myself and my partner are in a LDR (that is: a long distance relationship), and we both find it difficult to stay connected. It goes without saying that this device was (and is) a wishlist item. Read: I was very keen to give the highly-rated Lovense Lush 3 sex toy a go. First thoughts: you can get five hours' worth of continuous use per charge with this sex toy for women, and it’s comfy enough that you can make full use of that time. It works well across the globe together with the We-Vibe app acting as the remote control (I'm in the UK; my partner is in the States). What’s more, this toy specifically gives off intense and rumbly vibrations as far as internal stimulation is concerned and, as one buyer put it, they’ll make you squirm (in the best way).”
Cons: “The app can be a little tricky as it has lots of settings. I found it took me a while to get used to. That said, I might argue that a surplus of settings could be seen as a pro for some buyers, and once I knew what I was doing (and what I liked), I felt it did a stellar job of bringing myself and my partner closer together."
Type: Remote controlled vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: Rechargeable via a magnetic charge point.
Made from: Latex-free, phthalate-free silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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20. Best sex toy for women on Amazon
Pros: “A real trending product in the world of sex toys, the Pro 2 massages the clitoris using pressure waves and tingling pulsations and has a new silicone head for a soft and comfortable feel. It’s also best-selling, to the point that one buyer described it as, ‘100 angels going down on you.’ If that doesn’t sway you in its favour, I don’t know what will. On a more practical note, this is one of the most reasonably priced suction toys I’ve come across and the fact that it includes a 15-year guarantee for its sub-£35 price point is a godsend.”
Cons: “Takes a little while to charge, yet still multiple buyers in the review section are remarking that they’d choose the Satisfyer over Womanizer’s higher price point devices.”
Anonymous GLAMOUR tested review: As someone who had read about the Satisfyer clit stimulator on TikTok - wherein you'll find a jillion rave reviews - I was hesitant to believe the hype. I needn't have been. You can adjust the intensity of clit stimulation both via the device's settings and by playing with its physical closeness to your clitoris. It really does mimic the feeling of my partner being down there and, for the price, I'm overjoyed.
Type: Clitoral suction toy.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: USB rechargeable lithium ion battery.
Made from: The suction ring is manufactured from silky smooth, medical-grade silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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21. Best egg vibrator
Pros: “It's sleek and silicone, rechargeable, and thanks to its pebble shape, sits snug in one hand. It was voted the 'World's Best Vibrator,' has a range of pulses and speeds and is surprisingly and pleasantly quiet for the intensity of the sensations it achieves. In addition to this, it’s the sort of toy that’s versatile enough to be used on penises, perineums and anuses, just as it is on clitorises and vulvas. It also comes with free delivery, so that’s another financial weight off your mind when ordering.”
Cons: “The controls can be a bit tricky, in the sense that you’re navigating eight different vibration patterns and 12 speed settings all at the touch of three buttons.”
Type: Mini clitoral vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: USB rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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22. Best strap on sex toy
Pros: “Suitable for either two partners with vaginas or mixed vagina-penile sex, this dildo is one of the best sex toys for couples and can be held in place - without leg braces - by placing the shorter shaft within the vagina while the bunny ears tantalise your clitoris. Meanwhile, the longer shaft can then be used to experiment with pegging and/or lesbian penetrative sex. It’s quiet, perfect for if you live in a shared rental property or student accommodation – and a top choice for pleasuring both parties simultaneously. I found it comfortable to wear for up to an hour, and felt hugely empowered by the whole experience."
Con: “The party using the shorter shaft may need to practise kegel strength exercises to ensure it stays in place for extended periods. Once I got to around the 45-minute mark, I started to struggle. Then again, who said improving our pelvic floor muscles was a bad thing?”
Type: Strap-on dildo vibrator.
Waterproof? Yes.
Battery: USB rechargeable.
Made from: Silicone.
Discrete packaging? Yes.
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23. Most versatile sex toy
Pro: “With larger motors than other sex toys which means it vibrates at lower frequencies, and the vibrations they produce are deeper and more 'rumbly'. Plus, with a whopping 20 vibration patterns and 10 intensities you’d think it’d be hard to use, but it’s plain and simple: the middle button controls your pattern, while the + and - buttons dictate the intensity. I, like the rest of the 7.5k buyers searching for wand vibrators in the UK, see the appeal of the 5cm head, covering the clitoris in a way that mimics the feel of a partner’s tongue during oral sex.”
Con: “Said 5cm head produces a more targeted sensation, while some buyers might prefer a more bulbous end to their wands, to cover a larger area and offer less direct stimulation.”
Type: Wand vibrator.
Waterproof? Shower and bath friendly.
Battery: USB rechargeable.
Made from: Features a body-safe silicone head.
Discrete packaging? Described on-site as ‘premium packaging’.
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What are the different types of sex toys for women?
While today's best sex toys all have multiple features in common (they're USB-rechargeable, Bluetooth compatible, ergonomic, cordless, discrete, whisper-quiet and more sophisticated than ever before), there are numerous categories in which they fall into. So, how to decipher which sex toy is best for you? According to expert Cecile Gasnault, brand director of Smile Makers and founder of Vulva Talks, there are five main sex toy camps worth knowing.
- Bullet vibrators: One of the smallest vibrators on the market (that still packs a punch), bullet vibrators - as their name suggests - are bullet-shaped sex toys about the size of your index finger. Bullets often come with a handy ring holder to help manoeuvre them (thus making them finger vibrators) and they can, as Cecile explains, be used "to stimulate the glans of the clitoris on the vulva and to roll on the labia or orbit around the vaginal entrance." A bullet vibrator can still be used for partner sex, says Cecile. “Given the central role of the clitoris for female pleasure, it is is a great toy to enhance partner sex,” she elaborates, “be it for sex between vulva owners or sex between vulva owners and penis havers.” Out of all the different types of sex toys, bullet vibrators are the ones most likely to be battery powered, so make sure to supplement your order with some AA or AAAs.
- G-spot vibrators: Compared to bullet vibrators, G-spot vibrators can vary hugely in their shape and size ) and, while one may appear somewhat like a dildo, another may possess a shorter shaft which is curved, with a central goal of reaching your internal G-spot rather. Cecile delves deeper, telling GLAMOUR that “a g-spot vibrator has been ergonomically crafted to reach the erogenous zone inside the vagina where the vagina wall comes in contact with the internal structure of the clitoris called the G-spot.” In a nutshell, G-spot vibrators have a more targeted goal, while dildos might provide a more well-rounded pleasure experience.
- Clit vibrators: This category of sex toy which, coincidentally, can actually include G-spot vibrators and wand vibrators, focuses heavily on clitoral suction toys. Clitoral suction toys - or clit suckers, as they're more often referred - involve the use of air to massage and suck the clitoris and its surrounding area, creating a sensation which aims to mimic that of oral sex with a partner.
- Wand vibrators: Much like clit vibrators, wand vibrators also shine a spotlight on the clitoris, using a bulbous vibrating head to stimulate the area. That said, while a clit sucker might not provide much pleasure around the outer vaginal entrance (that's not to say you shouldn't try it…), a wand vibrator can be used for all-over sensation. From your nipples to your inner thigh, even your partner's penis and perineum.
- Rabbit vibrators: Named as such because of their signature ‘rabbit ears', rabbit vibrators feature two prongs. The first is designed to be inserted into the vagina and reach the G-spot therein, while the second, shorter prong, hovers over the top of the clitoris using those aforementioned ears to tickle and titillate the area, building towards a dual orgasm.
Outside of the “hero five”, there's a handful of other sex toy categories worth becoming acquainted with. A broader overview, incoming:
- Cock rings: Designed with heterosexual partnered sex in mind, cock rings engulf the penis, much like a jewellery ring just, well… on a penis. Atop the cock ring is either a bead or bar that's placed to nudge the clitoris during sex, vibrating and creating external stimulation for both parties, thus boosting the chances of orgasm on the woman's behalf.
- Dildos and plugs: A dildo is, essentially, a G-spot vibrator but, as Cameron from LELO adds, “the difference between a vibrator and a dildo is that generally, a dildo does not vibrate unless it comes with an extension, like a bullet vibrator for example.” She continued, “It’s important to realise that there is a great misconception and expectation for women to easily climax from penetrative sex or dildos. This is not the case, it’s different for everyone, and using a dildo as an explorative tool on your erogenous zones is a great way to find out what feels good, and if you can orgasm from penetration." Cameron stresses that everyone should focus on communicating and exploring themselves/their partners bodies at a rate everybody is comfortable with. The same goes for plugs, which perhaps offer a more guaranteed benefit for penis-having buyers, given the further rear location of their G-spots. But, women can and have found enjoyment from the use of anal plugs and beads, so their use isn't limited to our Y chromosome-having counterparts. Plugs, like dildos, can vary in shape, with some being beaded while others are tapered. To this, Cameron adds, "when considering size, think about how tight you are and if you’re struggling to visualise the size you’re after, look at household items around you and get the tape measure out." Often, when it comes to anal plugs, buyers need to work their way up from a smaller size, increasing in length and width as they feel comfortable. With this in mind, perhaps don't leap in plug first for the 6-incher.
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